What to do if your place in the tab disappears?

I use the plugin on tab - Tab, link: https://www.spigotmc.org/resources/tab-1-5-x-1-16-1-rgb-support.57806/

And so, let's say when we are two players, me and my friend. I give my friend the prefix - & 4 & lBOCC, after that I give myself a donation, for example & d & lVip. But when I give myself a VIP, it turns out that my friend is taller than me, and he is a player. And so with almost all the privileges. There is no such thing only with privileges: & c & lSTAFF, & c & lLUCIFER & 4 & lAdmin & 6 & lHelper & 4 & lHelper and one more like. What to do? It should be that my friend was lower (he is a player) and I am higher (I am vip for example)

Help me!